Make the Distance

by Mal Cherifi

Review by Emily Fedor

Solo shows are a challenge for both the actor and the audience. The actor only has himself/herself to rely upon, and the audience has only one person to watch. But when done correctly, solo shows can offer a different kind of experience that allows relationships to be formed. And that’s what this show is about. Relationships—and the distances people are willing to travel to keep those relationships alive.

Written and performed by Ithaca College graduate Mal Cherifi, “Make the Distance”—also known as “The Distance Project”—dissects the topic of long distance relationships in a hilarious yet truthful way. Cherifi talks about what it means to “put a number on relationships.” Is a short walk around the block too far to go? What about a 20-minute car ride, a five-hour bus trip or a 10-hour flight? The questions they ask are nothing short of thought-provoking, but thanks to a warm delivery as well as a few jokes and stylish dance breaks, the situation feels less like an interrogation and more like a conversation. The relaxed script paints Cherifi as a friend—not a stranger you’ve just met—who trusts you enough to share pieces of their life and soul (along with their personal address) with you.

The piece has an aspect of an autobiography to it, as it is filled with the playwright’s own personal experiences. And the creative choice of breaking the fourth wall keeps audiences focused in an incredibly natural and unforced way. If you’ve ever been in a long-distance relationship before, you’ll be shaking your head in agreement throughout the performance as Cherifi fearlessly says the things that run through your mind on a daily basis. And when it’s over, you’ll depart feeling understood and empowered by your new friend.